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Ain’t No Grave Gonna Hold Our Bodies Down

The doctrine of the resurrection of the body has never come naturally to me. Here’s how Brother Ely, Sister Rosetta, Johnny Cash, and my mama helped me begin to embrace the promise.

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Psalm 22, Good Friday, and the Princess Bride

If we hear Jesus’s anguished cry from the cross (“My God, why hast thou forsaken me?”) but we don’t notice that He was quoting Psalm 22 … we may be missing the most important point.

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Allow for Space in the Music

Sometimes the most helpful thing we can do is think of a truth and embody it rather than say it. When we long to tell a hurting friend that she’s not alone, we can simply sit with her as a tangible reminder that she isn’t …

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I Was an Ash Wednesday Rookie

I had no idea what the proper liturgical response should be. Thanks be to God? And also with you? Amen? What does one say to the proclamation that one is dust?

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A Curious Pattern

What might change if we became known more for our listening than our speaking – more for our curiosity than our didacticism?

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A No-Secrets Mission

She swallowed hard and asked, “Is there any chance we’re going to eventually find out some terrible secret about one of the leaders in this program?”

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My Cauliflower Puff Recipe

Break 2 heads of cauliflower into florets. Enjoy that “florets” is actually a word. Imagine a backup band named “The Florets.” Return to the task at hand …

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Stoicism Isn’t Spiritual

I tried so hard to fight my tears when I lost my mom. I had to learn that it was my honour to cry for her.

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It Ends Okay

Why my mom refused to see movies with sad endings. (And what she knew about resilience before resilience was a buzzword.)

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The Bargain

When my dad struck an unexpected deal in the sale of the family Impala, I got a glimpse of what it means for the meek to inherit the earth.

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